With God All Things Are Possible.

To my beautiful sisters in Christ who are married 🤍

I want to share some wisdom the Lord has given me in my walk regarding marriage:

1. Your marriage isn’t broken — you both need healing.
2. Your spouse still loves you — they just don’t always know how to express the pain they’re carrying.
3. Both of your feelings matter — but you must choose God’s way, or you will always live on the edge of separation.

The enemy hates your marriage.

He hates it because if you truly came into the revelation that your spouse is not your enemy but your partner, and understood what God can do through you together, he would be terrified.

Your marriage is a God covenant.

It is called to be holy — and holiness requires surrender.

That means being willing to:

• Hear your partner’s heart and be slow to speak
• Release the pain you’ve been holding against your spouse
• Fight for your spouse when they are under spiritual attack
• Stand with them in warfare — not against them

Not every emotion or feeling is meant to lead you.

Be sober-minded.

Discern when the enemy is trying to use you against your spouse — or your spouse against you.

Remember:

This is God’s covenant.
Which means you hold victory.
You hold power.
And most importantly — God is for you.

Choose each other today — not the past hurt you’ve experienced.
Choose healing.
Choose surrender.
Choose covenant.
Choose God’s way.

Girl, it’s time to let go and give all this pain to your Heavenly Father.

When Jesus died, He didn’t just die for your sins — He died for your healing too.
He went to the cross so you could lay every trauma, every wound, every heartbreak at His feet.

It’s time to forgive.
It’s time to release.
It’s time to heal.

We don’t forgive because what they did was right —
we forgive because we deserve freedom and true happiness.

The truth is, you’ve been expecting your spouse to heal the places they broke inside of you —
but that was never their job.
And it was never yours.

This is where surrender happens.
This is where we lay it all at the feet of Jesus.

You have free will to hold onto your pain —
and that’s why the same cycles keep repeating in your marriage.
God doesn’t force healing.
He waits for surrender.

He waits for us to release what we’re carrying.

The grass isn’t greener on the other side of the fence —
it’s greener when you surrender your marriage to the Lord.

Don’t stay locked in chains of fear because you’re afraid to get hurt again.
This time, when you open your heart, let God in —
not only to heal you,
but to reconnect you to your partner.

God is for your marriage.
God is for you.
You are not too far gone.
Your spouse is not too far gone.
You’re not broken — you’re healing.

And even if your spouse isn’t ready yet —
remember:
ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD.

Surrender.
Have faith.
Submit.
And watch God transform you, your heart, your spouse’s heart, and your marriage.

Sis, Don't allow the enemy to steal your intimacy from you.

The trick the enemy uses to steal your intimacy is replacing it with fear. Fear to love again, Fear to get close to your spouse, fear to allow them in your heart again.

Sister, fear doesn't just take your intimacy but it takes your joy away, your God given joy, love and peace!

Our spouses can hurt us, often times the reason why we are hurt is because we want to be heard and often times that's how the Husband feels. Are you able to catch this? when was the last time you actually heard his heart with out your pain involved?

Sometimes us wife's need to go first and what that looks like is surrendering it to the Lord. Falling in love with God first, following his commandments because we love him.

God has a perfect will for our life and marriage and just a little reminder marriage belongs to the Lord! what makes you think he wont repair a marriage that he longs to be involved in?

Marriage IS designed to have God in it.

If we could just take a moment and pause, and listen to one another and be slow to speak and hear our spouse's heart above ourselves then we will know Gods perfect ways and what he instructed us to do as wife's and husband's in HIS covenant!

Have you ever considered that maybe that wall of fear, pride, pain and trauma is the very thing holding you back from receiving restoration in your marriage? You can not ask for change if you are not going to surrender these burdens at the feet of Jesus.

I’m not saying that your pain does not matter, i am not saying that what they have done is right. What i am saying is choose JESUS and HIS WAY! Do NOT lean on your own understanding but TRUST the LORD with ALL your HEART!

Your marriage can be saved but this will require you to walk through forgiveness, healing, and trust.

Ask the Lord to teach you how to guard your heart and know that Gods ways are so perfect.

Its time sister! Its time to rise up and take back your intimacy the devil stole. Not only did he steal your intimacy from your husband but also your intimacy from your Heavenly Father!

ITS TIME TO FIGHT BACK! But NOT in the flesh but with your spiritual weapons!

Prayer

Worship

Surrendering

Forgiving

Choose today to lay everything at the feet of Jesus and walk in faith with the Father. Today you can experience healing, love and peace if you run to Jesus and choose to fall in love with him.🤍